{"id":36969,"date":"2026-03-13T06:19:14","date_gmt":"2026-03-13T06:19:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/be-accepted.com\/parah-parah\/"},"modified":"2026-03-13T06:19:15","modified_gmt":"2026-03-13T06:19:15","slug":"parah-parah","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/be-accepted.com\/ro\/parah-parah\/","title":{"rendered":"Parah parah"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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Trebuie s\u0103-\u021bi asumi responsabilitatea pentru tine, via\u021ba ta \u0219i s\u0103n\u0103tatea ta. <\/span><\/p>

Eu sunt Caro. Unii prieteni \u00eemi spun „Lionsita”, probabil pentru c\u0103 coama mea de leu se potrive\u0219te at\u00e2t de bine cu zodia mea, cresc dincolo de mine \u00een situa\u021bii stresante \u0219i ar\u0103t putere, dar \u00een „via\u021ba normal\u0103 ondulat\u0103” o iau destul de relaxat\u0103, ca o leoaic\u0103. <\/span><\/p>

Am avut o bunic\u0103 foarte \u00een\u021beleapt\u0103 care iubea s\u0103-\u0219i \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219easc\u0103 \u00een\u021belepciunea sub form\u0103 de ziceri. Expresia ei „Indiferent ce \u021bi se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u2013 trebuie doar s\u0103 \u0219tii cum s\u0103 te aju\u021bi singur” a devenit un ghid pentru mine \u0219i r\u0103m\u00e2ne \u00eenc\u0103 preferata mea ast\u0103zi. <\/span><\/p>

Am multe. Un so\u021b minunat, trei fii minuna\u021bi, o mam\u0103 impresionant\u0103, o familie numeroas\u0103, prieteni minuna\u021bi \u0219i eu avem cancer de s\u00e2n metastatic. <\/span><\/p>

De ce v\u0103 spun toate acestea este c\u0103, \u00een situa\u021bii de criz\u0103, adesea este nevoie de un impuls din exterior ca s\u0103 reveni\u021bi pe drumul cel bun.<\/span><\/p>

Am norocul s\u0103 am un mediu social care func\u021bioneaz\u0103 bine.<\/span><\/p>

To\u021bi cei pe care i-am ini\u021biat \u00een boala mea au preluat roluri. S-au organizat, au acoperit o gam\u0103 larg\u0103 de domenii \u0219i m-au ajutat s\u0103 fac fa\u021b\u0103 noii situa\u021bii. <\/span><\/p>

Deoarece am fost at\u00e2t de bine sus\u021binut \u0219i mi-am construit acum o cunoa\u0219tere \u0219i o re\u021bea vast\u0103, \u0219tiu c\u00e2t de important este s\u0103 ai acces la ea \u00eenc\u0103 din primul moment al unui diagnostic de cancer.<\/span><\/p>

Prin proiectul nostru acceptat BE, facem acest lucru posibil pentru tine.<\/span><\/p>

\u0218i ca s\u0103 \u0219ti\u021bi cine sunt, v\u0103 voi povesti mai multe despre mine \u0219i despre timpul petrecut dup\u0103 diagnosticul de cancer. \u00cemi place s\u0103 r\u00e2d, iubesc s\u0103 tr\u0103iesc, sunt curios \u0219i fl\u0103m\u00e2nd dup\u0103 cunoa\u0219tere. \u00cemi place s\u0103 c\u0103l\u0103toresc \u0219i s\u0103 fiu \u00een mi\u0219care, dar \u00eemi place \u0219i lini\u0219tea \u0219i pacea. Originea acestui fapt se afl\u0103 \u00een copil\u0103ria mea. <\/span><\/p>

Am crescut pe un munte din Stiria, \u00eenconjurat de p\u0103dure, natur\u0103 \u0219i hotelul p\u0103rin\u021bilor mei. At\u00e2t lini\u0219te, c\u00e2t \u0219i agita\u021bie, erau disponibile, \u00een func\u021bie de ce aveam chef. <\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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V\u0103 vom ar\u0103ta posibilit\u0103\u021bile.
Tu alegi pentru tine ce \u021bi se potrive\u0219te.<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t
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I\u00cemi place s\u0103 privesc lucrurile dintr-o varietate larg\u0103 de perspective. Motto-ul meu este „totul sau nimic”, nu exist\u0103 jum\u0103t\u0103\u021bi de m\u0103sur\u0103 la mine. Dup\u0103 cum arat\u0103 titlul, am \u0219i o sl\u0103biciune pentru \u00een\u021belepciune sub forma zicerilor. „Parah Parah” este un proverb din Israel \u0219i \u00eenseamn\u0103 literalmente „o vac\u0103 dup\u0103 alta”. <\/span><\/p>

Mai ales c\u00e2nd te love\u0219te nea\u0219teptat, este important s\u0103 te concentrezi pe un pas pe r\u00e2nd. M\u0103 ajut\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eempart o problem\u0103 mare \u00een multe p\u0103r\u021bi mici \u0219i apoi s\u0103 le \u00eenfrunt, individual. Prin aceast\u0103 confruntare fragmentat\u0103, provocarea este luat\u0103 din dimensiunea ei. A\u0219a procedez eu cu boala. \u00cemi stabilesc o prioritate, m\u0103 concentrez absolut pe ea, abia apoi trec la urm\u0103toarea. Concentrarea pe un singur subiect mi-a f\u0103cut, de asemenea, mai u\u0219oar\u0103 procesarea psihologic\u0103 a bolii. Mi-am permis s\u0103 m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc la toate „\u0219antierele” mele doar c\u00e2nd eram „trecut de deal” pentru moment. <\/span><\/p>

La v\u00e2rsta de 27 de ani am fost diagnosticat cu „tumor\u0103 cerebral\u0103”, dou\u0103 tipuri diferite. De\u0219i aceste dou\u0103 tumori nu erau clasificate ca maligne, opera\u021biile \u0219i ceea ce a urmat au fost orice, numai o plimbare de duminic\u0103 dup\u0103-amiaz\u0103 nu au fost deloc o plimbare de duminic\u0103 dup\u0103-amiaz\u0103. Via\u021ba mea a devenit brusc complet diferit\u0103, nu eram deloc preg\u0103tit pentru asta. M-am recuperat pas cu pas, iar faza care a urmat a fost de nedescris. Era frumoas\u0103! <\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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Via\u021ba mea a devenit brusc complet diferit\u0103, nu eram deloc preg\u0103tit pentru asta.<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t
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Prin aceast\u0103 experien\u021b\u0103, am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat multe \u0219i am c\u0103p\u0103tat putere interioar\u0103. Am putut s\u0103 m\u0103 concentrez exclusiv pe esen\u021bial. Am ajuns la mine \u00eensumi, eram eu \u0219i eram \u00een prezent. Claritatea absolut\u0103 era sentimentul dominant, o \u00een\u021belegere profund\u0103 a ceea ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 via\u021ba, a ceea ce conteaz\u0103 cu adev\u0103rat pentru mine. <\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t

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Totul a fost u\u0219or pentru mine, am avut succes \u00een toate domeniile vie\u021bii mele. Au fost multe zile luminoase \u0219i am sim\u021bit c\u0103 am prins esen\u021ba vie\u021bii mele. Nimic nu m\u0103 putea sup\u0103ra, nimic nu m\u0103 putea descuraja s\u0103 fiu complet eu \u00eensumi. <\/span><\/p>

Dup\u0103 cum s-a dovedit mai t\u00e2rziu, acest lucru nu era chiar adev\u0103rat. Dup\u0103 aproximativ 4 ani, mi-a devenit din ce \u00een ce mai greu s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n \u00een aceast\u0103 stare. Via\u021ba de zi cu zi, stresul \u0219i lucrurile neesen\u021biale m-au ajuns din urm\u0103 din urm\u0103. <\/span><\/p>

Pu\u021bin c\u00e2te pu\u021bin, am p\u0103r\u0103sit aceast\u0103 u\u0219urare, m-am l\u0103sat pe mine \u00eensumi. Am \u00eencetat s\u0103 mai fac unul dintre cele mai importante lucruri \u2013 s\u0103 m\u0103 bazez pe intui\u021bia mea. \u00cen schimb, am func\u021bionat. <\/span><\/p>

So\u021bul meu \u0219i cu mine eram ocupa\u021bi s\u0103 ne construim vie\u021bile, s\u0103 lucr\u0103m la cariere, s\u0103 facem fa\u021b\u0103 vie\u021bii de zi cu zi, s\u0103 avem grij\u0103 de cei trei copii ai no\u0219tri. Eram obosi\u021bi, stresa\u021bi \u0219i epuiza\u021bi. \u00cen plus, a existat o provocare \u00een familia extins\u0103 care ne-a \u00eempov\u0103rat pe o perioad\u0103 lung\u0103 de timp \u0219i ne-a expus la un stres peste medie. <\/span><\/p>

Sunt sigur c\u0103 \u0219ti\u021bi cu to\u021bii sentimentul de a fi cople\u0219it. Nu mai aveam via\u021ba de zi cu zi sub control. Odat\u0103 m-am surprins „\u00een flagranti”: diminea\u021ba preg\u0103tisem un iaurt cu fructe \u0219i un ceai. La ora cinci dup\u0103-amiaza i-am g\u0103sit pe am\u00e2ndoi, neatin\u0219i, st\u00e2nd \u00een buc\u0103t\u0103rie. Nu m\u00e2ncasem sau b\u0103usem toat\u0103 ziua. Era complet absurd, pentru c\u0103 nu \u00een\u021belegeam nimic despre postul intermitent la acea vreme, s\u0103 uit de mine \u00een felul acesta. Nu mi-am mai luat timp pentru mine. Sincer, chiar mi-am dorit activ o ie\u0219ire, o pauz\u0103 din via\u021ba mea. Voiam doar s\u0103 trag aer ad\u00e2nc \u00een piept. <\/span><\/p>

\u00cen timpul celei de-a treia sarcini, eram deja chinuit de dureri severe de spate care au r\u0103mas cu mine chiar \u0219i dup\u0103 na\u0219tere. Au fost clasifica\u021bi ca „normali” pentru al treilea copil. Chiar \u0219i dup\u0103 mai multe controale, cauza a fost pus\u0103 pe seama greut\u0103\u021bii bebelu\u0219ului \u0219i a „ligamentelor materne”, iar dup\u0103 na\u0219tere \u0219i apoi ridic\u0103rii constante cu trei copii. <\/span><\/p>

Eram, ca \u00een fiecare an, \u00een vacan\u021b\u0103 la lac. Dup\u0103 cum se \u0219tie, ceva apare \u00eentotdeauna imediat ce stresul dispare. Era pu\u021bin \u00eenainte de a \u00eemplini 39 de ani, o zi frumoas\u0103, vreme imperial\u0103. Ca \u00een fiecare zi am mers la schi nautic, una dintre pasiunile mele, dar \u00een acea zi am c\u0103zut \u0219i abia am putut s\u0103 m\u0103 urc \u00eenapoi pe barc\u0103. <\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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Tot ce-mi amintesc\neste durerea insuportabil\u0103 \u0219i numero\u0219ii salvatori\ndin dormitorul meu.<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t
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La dig am avut probleme s\u0103 m\u0103 ridic de pe \u0219ezlong. Dup\u0103 o infuzie, \u00een culoarea unui daiquiri cu c\u0103p\u0219uni, eram din nou \u00een form\u0103 maxim\u0103. Trei zile mai t\u00e2rziu, am zburat singur\u0103 cu copiii mei la Miami, unde locuisem \u00een anii dou\u0103zeci, timp de o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103, apoi \u00een Nicaragua pentru \u00eenc\u0103 trei s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2ni. Am vrut s\u0103 m\u0103 bucur la maximum de „ultima mea var\u0103”, c\u00e2nd nu lucram, \u00eempreun\u0103 cu cei trei b\u0103ie\u021bi ai mei, \u0219i asta am f\u0103cut! Timpul nostru \u00eempreun\u0103 a fost perfect. Aproape! So\u021bul meu nu era acolo pentru c\u0103 trebuia s\u0103 lucreze. \u0218i apoi era o durere de spate care era acolo, indiferent c\u00e2t de mult \u00eencercam s\u0103 scap de ea. <\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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De fapt, a fost ultimul nostru moment, absolut lipsit de griji. Termenul „vara trecut\u0103” avea s\u0103 capete cur\u00e2nd un sens complet diferit pentru mine. Adesea m\u0103 \u00eentrebam dac\u0103 am avut o premoni\u021bie \u0219i nu am ascultat corpul meu mai devreme sau dac\u0103 nu voiam s\u0103 ratez excursia noastr\u0103 sub nicio form\u0103? Chiar am crezut c\u0103 e doar durere de spate? Sau a fost pentru c\u0103 presupui mereu c\u0103 afecteaz\u0103 doar „ceilal\u021bi” \u0219i tu \u00eensu\u021bi e\u0219ti cru\u021bat? Credeam c\u0103 deja am l\u0103sat \u00een urm\u0103 partea mea personal\u0103 din „nenorocirea vie\u021bii”? <\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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De ce vrea pieptul meu s\u0103 m\u0103 omoare acum?<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t
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Dup\u0103 cum se \u0219tie, nu po\u021bi schimba ce a fost. \u00cen afar\u0103 de a smulge promisiunea de a nu mai l\u0103sa niciodat\u0103 s\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mple asta, are pu\u021bin sens s\u0103 se g\u00e2ndeasc\u0103 prea mult la asta. Po\u021bi folosi mai bine energia ta, mai ales \u00een cazul cancerului. <\/span><\/p>

Acas\u0103, dup\u0103 c\u0103l\u0103torie, durerea a devenit insuportabil\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd, \u00een cele din urm\u0103, am f\u0103cut o programare la spital printr-un prieten doctor, Dr. Matthias Brenner. Dar asta nu s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat. \u00cen diminea\u021ba celei de-a opta noastre anivers\u0103ri de c\u0103s\u0103torie, nenorocitul de anul \u0219apte se \u00eencheiase, s-a auzit un zgomot puternic. Sunetul venea din coloana mea vertebral\u0103. Tocmai al\u0103ptasem copilul \u00eenc\u0103 o dat\u0103. Doctorul de urgen\u021b\u0103 era ocupat s\u0103 m\u0103 scoat\u0103 din pat. <\/span><\/p>

Durerea nu putea fi domolit\u0103, indiferent ce medicament mi se administra.<\/span><\/p>

Ceea ce m-a \u021binut pe linia de plutire a fost contactul vizual cu fiul meu de nou\u0103 luni, care st\u0103tea \u00een p\u0103tu\u021bul s\u0103u ro\u0219u \u0219i privea totul. A fost foarte calm \u0219i nu m-a l\u0103sat din ochi nici m\u0103car o secund\u0103, iar eu nu l-am l\u0103sat. A fost o situa\u021bie ireal\u0103, ca \u0219i cum a\u0219 fi fost observator \u0219i actor principal \u00een acela\u0219i timp. <\/span><\/p>

\u00cen spital, diverse examin\u0103ri erau pe ordinea de zi. Dr. Brenner a dat tot posibilul. <\/span><\/p>

Am presupus c\u0103 mi-am rupt vertebra, destul de grav.<\/span><\/p>

Biopsia vertebrei lombare a ar\u0103tat c\u0103, dup\u0103 cum au spus medicii, era o tumor\u0103 „malign\u0103 \u0219i deosebit de agresiv\u0103”. A trebuit s\u0103 merg la CT ca s\u0103 v\u0103d de unde a ap\u0103rut. <\/span><\/p>

„Ce? De unde crezi c\u0103 vine?” Panica s-a r\u0103sp\u00e2ndit \u00een mine. <\/span><\/p>

El, cancerul, se r\u0103sp\u00e2ndise deja complet. \u00cencep\u00e2nd de la piept, prin oase \u0219i limf\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 la ficat. Ca bonus, biopsia s\u00e2nului s-a dovedit c\u0103 aveam dou\u0103 tipuri diferite de cancer, care era deja mutat\u0103. <\/span><\/p>

Nu-mi venea s\u0103 cred: Nu se spunea c\u0103 dac\u0103 al\u0103ptezi, nu faci cancer la s\u00e2n? De ce vrea pieptul meu s\u0103 m\u0103 omoare acum? A fost mereu ceva deosebit de simplu, \u00eemi pl\u0103cea. Ea simboliza feminitatea mea, asociam doar lucruri frumoase cu ea. Cum e posibil? <\/span><\/p>

Eram acolo, \u00eentr-un spital unde \u0219tiau multe despre ortopedie, dar nu aveau prea mult\u0103 experien\u021b\u0103 cu cancerul. Mi s-a spus c\u0103 probabil nu voi tr\u0103i s\u0103 v\u0103d Cr\u0103ciunul. Era octombrie. <\/span><\/p>

Singurele mele g\u00e2nduri au fost: „Vom vedea!” \u0219i c\u0103 m-am g\u00e2ndit: „Ce facem acum?”. Nu aveam inten\u021bia s\u0103 preiau rolul de victim\u0103. <\/span><\/p>

Un pastor \u0219i un psiholog au venit la mine. Le-am cerut am\u00e2ndurora s\u0103 plece. Au insistat s\u0103-mi spun\u0103 din nou c\u0103 am ceva „foarte grav” \u0219i m-au \u00eentrebat dac\u0103 voi realiza asta. I-am asigurat c\u0103 nu sar pe fereastr\u0103, mai ales c\u0103 nu era fizic posibil, \u0219i c\u0103 \u00een\u021belegeam exact ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103. I-am cerut din nou s\u0103 plece, pentru c\u0103 trebuia s\u0103 dau un telefon acum \u0219i acum chiar nu mai aveam timp de pierdut. <\/span><\/p>

L-am sunat imediat pe prietenul nostru, prof. dr. Michael Fuchsj\u00e4ger, un radiolog de top pentru cancerul de s\u00e2n din Austria. A fost grozav, m-a luat de m\u00e2n\u0103, m-a prins \u00een \u0219ocul ini\u021bial \u0219i m-a preg\u0103tit pentru urm\u0103torii pa\u0219i. <\/span><\/p>

Dintr-o dat\u0103, am avut senza\u021bia c\u0103 pot deveni activ, c\u0103 am o op\u021biune \u0219i \u0219tiam c\u0103 sunt pe cele mai bune m\u00e2ini. M-a lini\u0219tit \u0219i m-a trimis la colegul s\u0103u, Dr. Georg Pfarl, radiologul care a efectuat biopsia. C\u00e2nd a terminat \u0219i mi-a spus stadiul cancerului meu, mi-a dat una dintre cele mai importante fraze-cheie pentru mine: „Ceea ce vei \u00eenfrunta va fi o plimbare cu montagne russe. Concentreaz\u0103-te doar pe cap\u0103tul cursei! Ca s\u0103 m\u0103 asigur c\u0103 ie\u0219i bine!” <\/span><\/p>

Exact asta fac de atunci.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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Primul oncolog pe care l-am \u00eent\u00e2lnit imediat dup\u0103 biopsie a fost foarte competent \u0219i destul de empatic, dar eram \u00een stare de \u0219oc, era imposibil s\u0103 ajung\u0103 la mine. Totu\u0219i, sim\u021beam c\u0103 el \u0219i cu mine nu eram o potrivire bun\u0103 pe termen lung. Dac\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 intru \u00eentr-o rela\u021bie de durat\u0103 cu un oncolog, m\u0103car chimia dintre noi ar trebui s\u0103 fie corect\u0103. <\/span><\/p>

A\u0219a c\u0103 prof. dr. Fuchsj\u00e4ger m-a trimis la un oncolog foarte experimentat, care \u0219tie multe despre comunicare, prof. dr. Rupert Bartsch. Mi-a spus urm\u0103toarele: „Sunt ve\u0219ti bune. Trei la sut\u0103 dintre pacien\u021bii cu aceea\u0219i imagine clinic\u0103 pot <\/span><\/p>

S\u0103 fie complet vindecat\u0103. Cu celelalte, putem ob\u021bine cronificarea pentru zece, cincisprezece ani. Se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 multe \u00eentr-o perioad\u0103 at\u00e2t de lung\u0103 <\/span><\/p>

\u00een cercetarea cancerului de s\u00e2n.”<\/span><\/p>

I-am spus, 3% mi se potrive\u0219te, sunt de acord.<\/span><\/p>

Acel moment, acum aproape cinci ani, a fost punctul meu de cotitur\u0103. Deodat\u0103 a ap\u0103rut speran\u021b\u0103, exista o op\u021biune pentru mine. Mai mult, dac\u0103 Planul A nu func\u021biona, mi s-a oferit \u0219ansa s\u0103 supravie\u021buiesc c\u00e2t mai mult posibil ca s\u0103 ajung \u00een grupul care poate fi vindecat pentru c\u0103 vor g\u0103si ceva. <\/span><\/p>

Perspectivele mele s-au schimbat astfel de la „probabil nu voi tr\u0103i s\u0103 v\u0103d Cr\u0103ciunul” la posibilit\u0103\u021bi reale. Diagnosticul meu nu se schimbase, dar perspectiva mea da. Mine <\/span><\/p>

Oncologul ar fi putut spune la fel de bine c\u0103 97% nu au nicio \u0219ans\u0103 s\u0103 supravie\u021buiasc\u0103 pe termen lung. S\u0103 presupun c\u0103 am \u00eencercat oricum, dar motiva\u021bia din spatele asta ar fi fost complet diferit\u0103. <\/span><\/p>

Am luat o decizie con\u0219tient\u0103 \u00een acel moment. Profit la maximum de timpul pe care \u00eel am <\/span>.<\/span> <\/span><\/p>

Voi tr\u0103i c\u00e2t mai mult posibil \u0219i c\u00e2t mai bine. Am decis s\u0103 fac tot ce pot pentru ea. Mi-am promis c\u0103 voi face drumul dificil care m\u0103 a\u0219tepta c\u00e2t mai pl\u0103cut \u0219i bun posibil. <\/span>Ast\u0103zi pot s\u0103-\u021bi ar\u0103t cum func\u021bioneaz\u0103. Diferen\u021ba pe care o face este enorm\u0103. <\/span><\/p>

I-am spus oncologului meu c\u0103 exist\u0103 o singur\u0103 op\u021biune pentru mine, \u0219i anume s\u0103 ies din montagne russe. A\u0219a c\u0103 i-am smuls promisiunea de a m\u0103 include \u00een studii \u0219i i-am promis \u00een schimb c\u0103 voi face tot ce pot pentru a m\u0103 men\u021bine \u00een form\u0103 fizic\u0103 \u0219i mental\u0103, cu scopul de a putea primi c\u00e2t mai multe terapii medicale conven\u021bionale. A fost de acord \u0219i a preluat conducerea echipei mele medicale. C\u0103l\u0103toria noastr\u0103 \u00eempreun\u0103, ca echip\u0103, a \u00eenceput. <\/span><\/p>

Ceea ce ai nevoie la \u00eenceputul unui diagnostic de cancer este un impuls care s\u0103 clarifice imaginea.<\/span><\/p>

Informa\u021bii bine fundamentate, filtrate \u0219i rezumate care \u00ee\u021bi ofer\u0103 un avans \u0219i permit o privire de ansamblu mai rapid\u0103. Un ghid astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 po\u021bi lua singur decizia de care ai nevoie. <\/span><\/p>

Mai mult, este nevoie de reamintiri constante pentru a r\u0103m\u00e2ne fidel, pentru c\u0103 cel mai important lucru aici este s\u0103 te sus\u021bin\u0103 s\u0103 fii mai puternic dec\u00e2t destinul t\u0103u.<\/span><\/p>

Acceptarea BE \u00ee\u021bi ofer\u0103 toate acestea, combinate cu propria mea experien\u021b\u0103.<\/span><\/p>

Exist\u0103 mul\u021bi exper\u021bi care au o expertiz\u0103 uria\u0219\u0103 \u00een domeniile lor. Totu\u0219i, imaginea de ansamblu \u0219i ideile apar \u00eentotdeauna din schimbul \u0219i combinarea cuno\u0219tin\u021belor. Acela\u0219i lucru este valabil \u0219i cu o via\u021b\u0103 cu cancer. <\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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Nu putem influen\u021ba ceea ce ni se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103, dar putem decide cum reac\u021bion\u0103m la asta.<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t
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C\u0103utam o modalitate de a face aceste cuno\u0219tin\u021be \u0219i, de asemenea, aplicarea lor \u00een practic\u0103 accesibile tuturor pacien\u021bilor, rentabile \u0219i flexibile din punct de vedere al timpului. Cu Be accepted, pot! <\/span><\/p>

Totu\u0219i, exist\u0103 un lucru pe care trebuie s\u0103-l faci singur mai \u00eent\u00e2i: accept\u0103 situa\u021bia, accept\u0103 provocarea. D\u0103-\u021bi acordul s\u0103 te vindeci. <\/span><\/p>

Trebuie s\u0103-\u021bi asumi responsabilitatea pentru tine, via\u021ba ta \u0219i s\u0103n\u0103tatea ta.<\/span><\/p>

Apropo, cuv\u00e2ntul provocare <\/em>este tradus \u00een chinez\u0103 cu 2 caractere:<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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Periculos \u0219i posibilitate<\/span><\/p>

BE acceptat se concentreaz\u0103 clar <\/em>pe posibilit\u0103\u021bi.<\/span><\/p>

Toate cele bune,<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t

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